How To Love Your Lover Without Unloving Your Lord

How To Love Your Lover Without Unloving Your Lord

Shade heaved a big sigh.

Where should she begin from?

It was a blow to her.

Only if she had heeded to instructions.

She saw all the signs, but then she thought he would out grow it.

She felt bitter.

Truth they say is bitter, but it’s better said.

She met Wale five years ago at a friend’s birthday party.

They got talking, and had many things in common.

He made her laugh, he was a gentle man, sweet and caring.

She didn’t want to be swept off by all these affections, so she retreated and called on God to know if he was right for her.

She heard clearly NO!

She didn’t want to believe it.

She went into the scriptures, but it was all pointing to the same thing; No go area.
She couldn’t believe it.

After waiting all these years…and this fine gentleman coming, and Lord what are you saying?

Yes! There are situations we face like this.

The fact that he is caring, sweet talking, God fearing doesn’t mean he is the one for you.

Try to trust God and let it go.

If you want a beautiful relationship and marriage, then you have to learn to trust God.

Look at Pro 3:5-6
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy path.

God will never lead you wrong!

No, it cannot happen.

You have to learn to trust him.

Soon, you would be reaping the fruits.

You don’t want to be in regrets.

Do you know Shade, went ahead to marry Wale.

What happened?

He was into drugs that she didn’t know about or couldn’t see.

God that saw it, wanted to prevent her from falling into this trap.

But she had to live with it.

Before you knew it, he started beating her up.

We can avoid all these.

It doesn’t need to get to this point of trying to salvage the whole situation.

God loves you and he wants the best for you!

If God can sacrifice his only son for you, what would He tell you to do, that it would not be for your own good?

Just think about that.

Look at Peter in the bible.

Luk 5:4
Now when he had left speaking, he said unto Simon, Launch out into the deep, and let down your nets for a draught.

He had toiled all night , yet he caught nothing!

Jesus stepped in and told him. LAUNCH OUT INTO THE DEEP!

Peter hesitated, but then he said;

At thy word Lord, I would.

What happened?

Luk 5:6
And when they had this done, they inclosed a great multitude of fishes: and their net brake.

His net was breaking

He had an Overflow of fishes in his ship such that they began to Sink!


You too can have that!

It just involves obeying God, trusting him and believing him.

And that marriage you believe for would become a reality.

Look at the wedding at Cana.

Mother of Jesus told them;

Whatever he tells you to do, do it.

What happened?

The water turned into wine.


I pray for strength and grace for you to trust God all the way and to obey him at every instruction.

That marital dream you are believing God for would become a reality in Jesus name.

God bless you!

I receive strength from the Lord.

Father, help me to obey you at every point of my life.

Jesus loves me.

Make an effort to spend time with God today.

Luke 5:1-8

Mrs Fehintola Ganiyu

Mrs Fehintola Ganiyu is a lover of God, and a lover of his people who believes in God's love for humanity.

This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Sylvester Obinna

    I trust God wholeheartedly.
    I will overflow this year.

  2. Prince

    Lord help me to not just hear but obey your word. Amen

  3. Boluwatife

    God help me to trust you even when the instruction is not easy….

  4. Ayo

    Lord help me to trust you at every Junction of my life.

  5. Clinton Nkwa

    Lord help me to hungry and follow you, amen

  6. John Oluwawalemi

    Father, help me to obey you at every point of my life

  7. Jesupelumi

    I receive strength

  8. Oni Elizabeth


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