Sade was really disturbed. She didn’t even know how to go about the situation at hand? Or should she talk to him about it? Would it make him angry? Or she should just keep quiet about it and keep hoping for the best? Shebi they said ‘whatever will happen will happen’? But then…
Tola just got angry because she saw Henry hugging a sister. I thought he loved me and has his only eyes for me. Or what exactly does he mean by hanging out with me all the time?
Song of Songs 1:7 (NLT) says Tell me, my love, where are you leading your flock today? Where will you rest your sheep at noon? For why should I wander like a prostitute among your friends and their flocks?
Sade and Tola need to speak up. When you notice you are in a relationship that seems to be going nowhere, you need to talk out clearly and let your voice be heard. Maybe the brother is on the wrong track and needs someone to call him back to order or he has certain fears he isn’t telling you about.
Now this is not even about marriage alone. Even when the two of you have already fixed a wedding date, as a helper, if you see certain things you don’t quite understand and he is not talking about it, ask Him!
He might be struggling with a whole lot and just needs a word of encouragement at that time.
Then there are some guys on the other hand who are just really friendly with everybody. They really don’t see anything wrong with calling everybody, especially ladies, ‘my dear’, ‘sweetheart’, ‘baby’, ‘bae’, etc. So you need to guard your heart as a lady.
A closed mouth is a closed destiny! Ask questions and never make assumptions. It is not that you are proposing or being aggressive, you just want to know!
Hosea 4:6 (NIV) says my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge…
Then our brothers, please stop sending wrong signals to the ladies. Ladies are moved by words and very emotional. You don’t want to leave them heartbroken.
There is no joy in saying ‘I am the ladies’ man’.
If you sincerely like anyone of them, talk to God and get a confirmation then make your moves. Otherwise stop doing trial and error with people’s hearts. And if a sister is lurking around you too, ask…
Perhaps she is reading something you are not saying!
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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY:
The eyes of my understanding are enlightened!
PRAYER FOR THE DAY:
I will not be a victim of error.
THOUGHT OF THE DAY:
Am I receiving or sending the wrong signal?
ACTION PLAN OF THE DAY:
Henceforth I refuse to make baseless assumptions
BIBLE READING OF THE DAY: