There are no honorary husbands. You become a husband because you are married.
There are however, certain qualities that makes you a husband indeed.
That is, a husband that is worthy in all sense of the word.
There are no husbands by force. Every husband became one by an act of ones will and choice.
To be a husband, there are some basic requirement necessary if you must be a good husband.
It’s good we look into these, so that wives would know what traits to look out for and pray for if they are absent in the life of your husband.
If you are a husband, it is also useful for you. You can make assessment to know how to improve on the virtues you presently have.
Here are some of the qualities every husbands need:
- The ability to provide leadership:
This is essentially being able to lead in the marriage.
- The ability to be patient:
Every husband must be able to patiently wait till his wife matures.
- Ability to love:
It is a prerequisite for husband to possess the ability of genuinely loving their wife.
All the attributes of love in 1 Cor13
- The ability to be humble:
Every great husband is humble.
You must be able to humbly cope with your wife and not claim authority over her.
- Ability to be a quick forgiver:
Every husband must be able to forgive his wife, and do it easily and quickly.
These 5 qualities are the essential of every good husband.
God bless our marriages.
CONFESSION OF THE DAY
I am a goodly and godly husband.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father, help me to become the husband after your heart.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Learn these 5 qualities of a good husband and begin to put them into practice.
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
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Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it’s purpose.