Only If You Know That It Has All Been Arranged

Only If You Know That It Has All Been Arranged

Only if you know, He arranged!

That the point you start fasting and praying for a spouse to show up is not when God begins to move on your behalf.

Only if you know!

That your fasting and prayer is not about changing God’s mind or enabling Him to move, but that He already moved before you were born!

Only if you know!

That your fasting and prayer is to work on yourself, to humble your soul and get you to a point of sensitivity so that you can hear what He has been saying all along.

Only if you know!

That mostly what fasting and prayer does is to help you see the wisdom that has been available for you along and get specific direction for victory in that situation.

All the prayers along with fasting, the action plans, the confession, the workbook sessions and more in the 28-Day Marital Breakthrough Programme and the 21-Day Sexual Purity Programme are not to bribe God, they are to prepare you into what God already arranged!

Only if you know!

1 Corinthians 2:9 (KJV)  
But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.

I want you to see The Message Translation:

1 Corinthians 2:9 (MSG)  
That’s why we have this Scripture text: No one’s ever seen or heard anything like this, Never so much as imagined anything quite like it— What God has ARRANGED for those who love him.

Hey! Only if you know!

That God has arranged…

Only if you know!

That your spouse has been arranged.

Only if you know!

That your cars have been arranged.

Only if you know!

That your house has been arranged!

Only if you know!

That every provision you need to fulfill your vision has been arranged.

He arranged!

Only if you know!

Was that not how I got my first car in the year 2001?

That Nissan Toyota was arranged before I was born!

God already arranged ever before I was born that one woman will hand over her car key to me, and that was exactly what happened shortly after I was married.

In her words, she said God told her to give us the car!
God arranged!

This does not mean you should be lazy! This does not mean you should not put forth your hands to labour! But to know that God has arranged that there is a favour that comes upon your labour!

Hey… He already arranged!

Only if you know!

You will stop that depression!

Only if you know!

You will stop that despondency!

Only if you know!

You will kick the devil out of your thoughts and embrace the joy of the Lord.

Only if you know!

You will put an end to that gloominess and embrace joy in the Holy Ghost!

Only if you know!

That God already arranged that you will not be stranded, if you stay close to Him!

Only if you know!

That God already arranged that you will not be hungry, neither will your destiny be famished as you obey Him every step of the way when He prompts you to give or sow a seed!

At a point in our lives and ministry as a young couple, and when it was much needed, somebody gave us a big house to live in, seven rooms and two sitting rooms, completely furnished, and we did not pay a dime for six years, in a prime location!

God arranged!

Only if you know!

That your career was settled before you were born!

Only if you know!

That your wedding date was fixed before your dad ever met your mum!

Only if you know!

Only if you know!

Only if you know!

That God arranged…

Yes, He arranged!

And that the only thing you need to do is to line up and cooperate with His arrangement!

So when the naysayers ask you, “How far with your wedding?

You have only one response… He arranged!

And what kind of man do you think God arranged?

Fine boy no pimples, anointed to the teeth! When he smiles, you fall under the anointing!

What kind of babe will God arrange?

Fine girl, a helper indeed, beautiful and adorable, pleasant to the eyes and a wonder to behold!

When they ask “How far now? When are you getting a job?”

You don’t say, “I don’t know o!”

You answer, soonest, He arranged!

May your relationship be blessed!

May God honour you and yours!

This week, He will open doors for you, bless you yafun yafun, (massively) and lead you int His arrangement for you this week!

This week, that door will open, that business will kick off, that contract will come through and you will surely rejoice.

So shall it be for you in Jesus name!

He arranged! Hey, KHC, believe it, He arranged!

Sophia and I love you and we are praying for you!

Leave a comment, what do you think God has arranged for you this year? Sound it loud below in comment section.

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Be blessed!

Good morning!

God already arranged.

I step into God’s arrangement.

1 Corinthians 2:9 (CEV)  But it is just as the Scriptures say, “What God has planned for people who love him is more than eyes have seen or ears have heard. It has never even entered our minds!”

Confess God’s word. I am stepping into God’s arrangement!

1 Cor. 2

Forty Years To Find A Spouse?

Forty Years To Find A Spouse?

Some time last week, we discussed the topic ‘Capacity to love and be loved’ where we saw how God routed the Israelites through the wilderness, which was a longer way, when taking them to their promised land, instead of leading them in a 40-day journey through the land of the Philistines.

And the simple reason was because they lacked CAPACITY.

Today, we pick up the story from there.

So the Israelites are in the wilderness now. And we see them spending 40 years in that wilderness before getting to their promised land!

Imagine if it took you 40years to find your promised spouse? You can’t imagine it right?

But that’s exactly the picture here! It took the Israelites 40years to get to their promised land, a journey that would have taken 40days!

No, that wasn’t normal! The wilderness route was definitely longer than 40days, but definitely shorter than 40years too!

Question now is “What extended their time in the wilderness?”

Let’s see.

The wilderness is meant to be a place where God meets you, trains and equips you for what is to come, and then releases you when He has certified you.

So, in the wilderness, God showed up to train the Israelites. He revealed Himself to the them. He showed the Israelites His strength. He led them via a fiery pillar of cloud covering and lifting from the tabernacle. He rained manna from above. Then He sent quail. And lots more.

The Israelites witnessed God’s glory and signs (Numbers 14:12), but unfortunately, they weren’t learning the lessons. They didn’t ponder on the things they were seeing to understand them.

They didn’t put them in their heart to remember them. And so their faith in God didn’t grow. They had a track record for that! [I hope you don’t have that track record?]

“Our fathers in Egypt did not understand Your wonders; They did not remember the multitude of Your mercies, But rebelled by the sea—the Red Sea.” Psalms 106:7 NKJV

And so when the test of faith came, they failed. When it was time to show faith in God, which would have launched them into their promised land immediately, unbelief was revealed instead!

It happened when they were already at the verge of the Promised Land. 12 spies were sent to survey the land. 10 came back with reports of “We cannot take that land! We were like grasshoppers in the eyes of the occupants of the land.”

And the people believed the report of the 10!

This revealed they had not built capacity still! That they had not learnt the lessons of the wilderness. So the Israelites failed their lesson on faith! And God had to wait for the unbelieving generation to pass away, and that took 40years!

So their inability to learn the lessons of the wilderness, revealed by their lack of faith in God (in His Word and His Promise), cost the Israelites extra years!

Dear friend, The earlier you accept the wilderness, and take on the lessons of the wilderness, the earlier you are likely to emerge into your promised land.

Take your time of singleness as your wilderness experience.

Don’t grumble there. Don’t murmur there.

Don’t grow restless and restive there.

Don’t become paranoid there.

Don’t get angry at God.

Instead be careful to learn all the lessons God is bringing your way. Lessons of faith and exploits, of faithfulness and fidelity, of patience and longsuffering, of submission and love, of giving and spending. Allow God deal with your anger issue.

And as God is dealing with you, also know that He is dealing with your spouse. And I bet you don’t want to receive a spouse that has not completed his/her lessons with God.

So be at peace in the wilderness.

Learn there.

Build capacity.

Finally, don’t falter at the promise of God through unbelief!

Has God said it? Then believe it!

Trust God for whatever He has promised… it will come to pass.

I pray for you: You will not falter at the verge of your promised land (your breakthrough) because of unbelief!

I am at peace in my wilderness… I learn all my lessons.

Pray in the spirit.”Lord, teach me Your ways, even in my singlehood.”

Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest, lest any man fall after the same example of unbelief. Hebrews 4:11 KJV

Think of the areas you know God is dealing with in your life, and be more deliberate in yielding to Him in that area.

Numbers 13-14

My Dear, Will You Be There For Me?

My Dear, Will You Be There For Me?

Up until very recently, I was pouring out my heart to one of my dear best friends (yh I have about three… take it or leave it… lol).

I was lamenting on why I feel I did not have the capacity to carry out a particular task and how I just wished the cup will pass over me. But the reply was ‘keep doing it… You are good at it’!

There and then it dawned on me that ‘wow, this can be related to how God wants a relationship to be like’.

Who are you in a relationship with? Is the person an encourager or one who pulls down?

Can you be sure to admit your mistakes around him/her and you won’t be hearing it from your neighbors?

Is the lady the kind of woman who will tell the whole world how you are not able to buy her Brazilian weave just because you had a misunderstanding?

Is the guy the one who will tell his friends all he has been doing for you just because he asked for something you could not give him at the moment?

James 5:16 (NLT) says Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.

Is that individual unable to carry both the weight and the glory that comes with the ‘you’ package?

Will he slap you at any slight provocation?

Will she lock your shirt at any little misunderstanding?

Will he shout you down in public or use your own scar to abuse your entire generation? You know the kind of insult that even your ancestors in the grave will say ‘haha?’

Will she defend your honour with her family members and her friends?
Now do you know the most important thing God wants for us in our relationship? It is that we be an extension of heaven…a place where He comes freely to fellowship.

When you are at your lowest ebb (those times when you are finding it difficult to pray, study your bible or even be motivated to do anything at all), will he/she be there for you?

Is your partner your prayer partner or your prayer point only? Can God say ‘don’t worry son, it is settled…your spouse discussed it with me yesterday’
Will your partner be able to stand in the gap for you?

Will he be able to echo the voice of God (the lover of your soul) back to you?

Will she be able to say to you ‘we are coming out of this because this is what the word of the Lord says’?

No doubt the Bible encourages us to be strong but even Moses had a Joshua to hold up his hand in time of war, Paul had a Timothy, David had a Samuel, Barak had a Deborah and even Jesus had Moses and Elijah comfort him at a very crucial moment of His life!

Psalms 42:7 (NIV) says Deep calls to deep in the roar of your waterfalls;…
So who are you allowing into your inner circle? Don’t let mere feelings blind your eyes… Eve was not just flesh to Adam, she was also bone to him!

Much more than the container, what is the content? Who are you in love with or better still what kind of lover are you too?

I am a man/woman of substance to my spouse

Lord help me to build capacity to grow deep in you

You cannot give what you do not have. What value do you have?

are you still of the opinion that relationship/marriage is just child’s play? What are those things you think you still need to work on?

James 5

Here Is The Time To Break Up!

Here Is The Time To Break Up!

We often see a break up in relationships as something negative.

Well, not always.

Sometimes, God Himself is supervising the break up.

God does not only order your steps, He also orders your stops!

The path of the righteous shineth brighter…

It may not necessarily be a forward step every time, sometimes for there to be advancement, there has to be a backward step!

Especially when you have entered into terrains where believers are not supposed to be found.

You will need to retrace your steps.

Joseph landed in the pit. It looked like it was a negative event. But bind all he wanted to, he would end up being sold as a slave.

From a choice son, the one with coat of many colours to becoming a slave, with a coat of no colour or even no coat at all!

Negative, right?

But that was an advancement into his destiny.

So I said all of that to let you know that some break up could be answer to God’s direction.

When should you ever consider breaking up?

There are many reasons, but I will just mention one that is very important this morning.

When There Is No Leading And No Peace

By far, this is the most important.

You have to have the leading of the Holy Spirit.

That is why you need to get filled with the Holy Ghost!

Pastor, are you for real? Get filled with the Holy Ghost in order to find a spouse?

Yes, I am for real. And Jesus is even more real when he said:

John 14:16-17 (MSG)  
I will talk to the Father, and he’ll provide you another Friend so that you will always have someone with you.  [17]  This Friend is the Spirit of Truth. The godless world can’t take him in because it doesn’t have eyes to see him, doesn’t know what to look for. But you know him already because he has been staying with you, and will even be in you!

The Holy Spirit is not just some tongues, No!

He is a friend, who wants to lead you into God’s plan for your life!

You cannot just marry anybody!

The complications, complexities, troubles and pressures that come with marriage requires that you marry someone you love and someone meant for you in God!

Forget about the flowers and the poems!

Marriage is spelt p-r-e-s-s-u-r-e!

And you not only need to be with the right person, you need an assurance from God that you are with the right person!

Combining the pressures of marriage with the pressures that come with the feeling that you are married to the wrong spouse is enough to kill anybody!

You want to get married and have some peace, not High Blood pressure!

You want to get married to a prayer partner, not a prayer point!

Now when that leading is not there, when that peace is elusive, if you go ahead, you are on your own!

John 14:27 (KJV)  
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

Leading. Peace. Those two are so important!

Don’t just follow emotions, follow leading.

Now that peace, that leading can be identified when there is a vital relationship with God, with His word and with the Holy Spirit.

So, is there peace?

If you cannot find pace, run for your life!

The absence of peace, that scratchy feeling that something is wrong, is God’s way of telling you that He is not part of the love story you are trying to script for yourself.

And believe me, any love story scripted without God ends up as horror movie!

If you ignore Him and go ahead, trouble looms ahead!

Romans 8:8 (MSG)  
And God isn’t pleased at being ignored.

Not a good idea to ignore God.

I will stop here this morning!

I pray you will hear God loud and clear.

You will distinguish His voice from wrong voices.

Your relationship is blessed.

I have direction

I come against every spirit of confusion in Jesus name.

Romans 8:9 (MSG)  But if God himself has taken up residence in your life, you can hardly be thinking more of yourself than of him. Anyone, of course, who has not welcomed this invisible but clearly present God, the Spirit of Christ, won’t know what we’re talking about.

Check your heart and check again by praying in the Holy Ghost

Romans 8

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Sweet, Spicy and Sumptuous

Sweet, Spicy and Sumptuous

Tunde couldn’t get his eyes off Lola….so sweet

He had been staring at her at the office…

Yomi his friend , noticed that Tunde was staring at her….

He said , Boy , come on..this one is easy cake. Just like the girls I have been having, I can help you get this one easily….

Tunde wasn’t thinking at her in that direction , he was fascinated at her beauty and her Aura.

Yomi, went on…

When you get her, you would enjoy her,

Look are her now, see those curves and fine legs…

see how Sweet, Spicy and sumptuous she is. Don’t you want to have a taste?

Tunde, pushed him away…

He remembered his values and statues, he wasn’t going to disappoint God, because everybody else was doing it.

He knew it was wrong…

Especially this verse that got to him…

1Co 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

1Co 6:19
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost….

So you should glorify God in it…

These kind of thoughts or action should not be around him…

I mean, what does light have to do with darkness…

Having just a five minutes of pleasure can ruin his life, he was not ready for these at all..

Your love for God, can keep you , and prevent you from falling into these traps.

Look at Joseph..
Gen 39:9 KJV
[There is] none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou [art] his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?

His fear and love of God, was what kept him, he said.

How then can I do this great wickedness and SIN AGAINST GOD….

God meant more to him than any other thing….

That’s why you should go for a partner who loves/fears God….

Their Love/Fear for God…..

Would prevent him from hitting you..

Would prevent her from duping you…

Would make him love you even when you have wronged him…

Would make her go the extra mile, even after offending her…

Don’t fall for a five minutes trip that can ruin your life….

Your Body is the temple of the Holy Spirit…

Can you then take members of Christ and join with members of harlot?

God forbid…

Let your Body Glorify God in all….


My Body would glorify God..

Father, please help my weakness

My Body is the temple of the Holy Spirit…

Flew from all source of temptation

1Corithians 6

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Who Is The Right Person To Marry?

Who Is The Right Person To Marry?

Where is that right person?

Gen 39:10 KJV
And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.

We fault Mrs. Potiphar each time we read this story, but there is a major lesson here for us all.

When choosing a life partner, pertinent questions needs to be sincerely answered.

Nobody seems to remember Mr. Potiphar in this whole scenario, but where was he when his wife was eyeing a common slave?

Where was he when his wife became obsessed with a mere servant boy?

Let’s try to analyze it.

Mr. Potiphar was probably a civil servant, a government worker.

Mrs. Potiphar was probably a full time housewife.
Joseph was a full time house boy.

Have you wondered how and why some women stoop low to seek solace and comfort in the arms of their domestic staffs?

Have you asked yourself why some men would do anything to sleep with their maids?

I presume quality time and attention is a default love language for almost all women and indeed, some men.

So here is my submission;

Dear KHCites, before you ask or say yes, know what language you speak.

Before you ask or say yes, know basic things like your temperament.

Before you ask or say yes, know what you want for yourself.

You know you cannot stand being away from your husband for 2 weeks, what are you then doing with a naval officer? Don’t you see you are setting up yourself?

You like the title “mummy G.O”, “pastor mrs”, “mummy pastor” and the likes…can you bear to have dinner alone, because “daddy pastor” is on a fast?

You want your wedding day to be graced with uniformed personnel…you love the sword crossing ceremony, but can you live with the fact that you are likely to be transferred from place to place and may not spend up to a year in a particular location?

Mrs. Potiphar probably fell in love with the civil servant in Mr. Potiphar, not with Mr. Potiphar, so she wanted something more, that his money, affluence and position couldn’t provide.

Mr. Potiphar probably needed a woman, not a wife, so he felt all he needed to do was make money available.

Another lesson;

As a man, don’t spend all your time building your career at the expense of your family…you may make the money and loose your family in the process.

Uriah the Hittite lost his family because he put his career first.

Like Pastor Dunamis will always say…Family first!

These are my thoughts…let me hear yours in the comment section.

I put my family first place.

Lord, help me not to misplace my priorities.

Am I sure I am ready for my dream marriage?

Do a temperament test if you haven’t done so.

2 Sam 11

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This Is Where To Find Your Lover

This Is Where To Find Your Lover

“Aunty this marriage thing scares me o. I’m so scared I will pick the wrong choice of a lover or life partner.” Danica lamented to her aunt one evening.

Aunty chuckled, “Where’s all these nonsense talk coming from Dan! Who revealed your life purpose to you last year when you came barrelling to my office with so much excitement about the revelation?”

“God of course” replied Danica.

“So why not take it to the same God who answered you in the time past in your secret place and let Him reveal the bone of your bone to you”

“Aunty, are you trying to say I can find my lover in my secret place?”

“Yes dear, go back to your Maker in prayer and tarry in His presence, He will speak to you. This will put your mind at rest and shut down every form of doubt you have.”

You want to know who to marry, brothers and sisters?

This is a question which your secret place will deliver answer to accurately.

But unfortunately most of us are not interested in knowing God for ourselves rather we prefer to run helter-skelter looking for answers that our secret place can provide if only we can learn to tarry in His presence.

Your secret place is your war room.

Your secret place is where you settle destiny.

Your secret place is where men have encounters with God.

Are you wondering what you must do to place yourself in the secret place? Jesus made this clear in Matthew 6:6 (KJV).

But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in the secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

Did you catch something here? ‘thy Father which is in the secret’….which means our Father is in the secret place already. To get there all you just have to do is to shut your door.

I love the way MSG Bible puts it

Here’s what I want you to do. Find a quiet, secluded place so you won’t be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God, and you will begin to sense His grace.

Oh wow, did you get this again? ‘Find a quiet, secluded place’… get a noiseless place where no one can see you; in the secret.

Right there is where our Father is, waiting for you so that you both can converse. It doesn’t matter the location, it can be in your bedroom, garden, parlor, bathroom, mountains etc.

All you just have to do is to shut your door from every distractions and He’s right there in the secret waiting for you! Glory.

All of your answers are in the secret place people, go and build it and learn to dwell there so that He can reveal things to come to you.

Do not join yourself with any man/woman and present yourselves to God, rather let God bring you to your partner and then join you both.

Do not settle for permissive will, rather settle for God’s will. You can only know the will of the Father when you learn to dwell with Him.

As a single, make it a task to settle your future in the place of prayer in your secret place. Ask for His will over your life.

Ask Him to give you a name or a promise to hold on to, so that when he/she appears you’ll be able to recognize him/her amidst all of the people that will be coming your way so as not to be blinded by your emotions and go pick the wrong one.

Sisters don’t wait till the suitors start trooping in before you start asking God who the one is, use your single state to pray ahead please.

It’s His voice that brings direction and shuts up all fears. Once He has given you a promise to hold on to, worry will be faraway from you. Don’t forget the secret, “your secret place”.

Therein lies all your answers to finding your partner, go pour out all of your concerns and worries at His feet there, and you’ll see Him put your mind at ease.

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I’m no longer confused on the choice of a life partner. I walk in God’s will over my life.

Daddy reveal your will to me Lord, I’m lost without your guidance.

God is in the secret place waiting for me.

Go build that secret place relationship with God today.

Matthew 6:1-8

How To Know If Your Lover Is A Leader Or A Boss

How To Know If Your Lover Is A Leader Or A Boss

If you marry a leader, you are are blessed!

If you marry a boss, it’s like being in a box!

How do you know a leader lover and a boss leader?

The role of a husband is a dynamic and a skillful one. It requires a lot of wisdom and tact.

A husband is supposed to be the head of the house, but he is not supposed to be the wife’s headache!

The eyes are located in the head, so the family is supposed to see through the husband/father.

So when the husband is not seeing rightly or correctly, he can cut down his wife and children, maim their productivity, stifle their expression, mute their sound and kill every fibre of creativity in them.

Remember the man seeing men as trees?

Don’t mistakenly give him a cutlass.

Mark 8:24 (KJV)  
And he looked up, and said, I see men as trees, walking.

A boss leaders shows his tool of trade from the very day you fall in love with him.

He monitors you to a point that monitoring spirits realize they don’t know their work. They need to come and learn.

You can hardly breathe.

You must report all your movements. You are not yet married o!

He has charge of your ATM! He controls your finances. He calls the shots and you are not yet married.

Do you know there are families of many years in marriage and it is still the husband that writes the list of items to get in the market and the change must be complete afterwards?

I am a counsellor, so you better believe what I am saying here. I lie not, this happened. I was as surprised as you are right now.

That is not only a boss husband, but also a boss father!

A boss lover is a threatened fellow. And he shows it to you from the very beginning.

A boss husband would rather suffer financially than allow his wife to do well financially than himself.

He would discourage her from improving herself all because he doesn’t want a wife that is well read or would learn more than him.

What a selfish, myopic and sadistic way of thinking!

But it is a reality!

The lover you are not married to that is already punishing you for coming late?

The lover you are not married to that already told you to cut off all your friends?

The lover you are not married to that you are already cooking and packaging food for on a daily babies and sometimes at the expense of your own work?

Some people need to borrow themselves brain o!

The lover you are not married to and is already telling you not go to church and prayer meetings?

The lover you are not yet married to and he is already insisting on jeru trip without considering that he is violating your conscience and desecrating the institution of marriage?

The lover you are not married to who is already singing and sounding in your ears that he is the head of the house? Which house? That one room?

The lover you are not married to and you already have sleepless nights and you are downing tablets everyday?

The lover you are not married to and you are already into serial abortion? And all he has to say is that he is the one paying for it?
Whose body? Whose womb is in danger? Who goes through the trauma? The guilt?

The lover you are not married to and you are already a dry-cleaner, washing singlets and boxers every weekend? Hiann!

I can go on and on.

But I will advise you, be careful with a boss lover!

And sometimes, in an unbelievable twist of events and reversal of roles, it is the lady that is the boss leader!

Yes, I joke not! You should equally be careful of bossy ladies, for that will lead to frustration few years after walking down the aisle.

Control freaks are not nice people.

I think I should stop here, but I believe you already got the point?

I pray that God will direct you, order your steps and your stops in Jesus name!

Psalms 119:133 (KJV)
Order my steps in thy word: and let not any iniquity have dominion over me.

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I am led of the Holy Spirit

Father, help me identify that person for me.

Psalms 119:133 (AMPC)  Establish my steps and direct them by [means of] Your word; let not any iniquity have dominion over me.

Take an honest inventory on your relationship

1 John 1

Do you Love me?

Do you Love me?

Bukky and Tunde have been in a relationship for over 4 years , Yet Bukky is not sure if Tunde Loves her.

Why, because there are somethings he does, that makes her wonder if he really loves her.

He doesn’t call often, she does the Calling most times, and says he’s busy.

He doesn’t like taking her out or better still ashamed of her being with him.

To the extent that, she was calling him one day and noticed how he ignored the call while he wasn’t doing anything.

Yet, he claims to Love her.

Ladies, please if you notice these signs around you, don’t be fooled. It takes two to be in a relationship.

Like Pastor Dunamis would say; How can he not call you for a month, and you still think you are in a relationship?

Be Wise !

Bible says
Mat 7:16 KJV Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

They come in sheep’s clothing , but are wolves inside, giving you all those sweet and sugar coated words.

If not careful, want to tear you apart.
They begin to demand for Jeru trip, and after that, that’s the end of the relationship.

Don’t be caught in that web.

Not everybody that professes their love to you, is who you should accept.
Study to know who he really is.

How is this possible?.

Go to the Father of Love.
He would give you somebody that would Love, cherish and respect you in the relationship.

Look at what he said in
Mat 7:11 KJV If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

How much more would he give you, when you ask of him?
He would give you that Perfect man/woman.

You just only need to trust him.
If you are a child of God, God will make everything work together for your good.

He is our father, and he hears us when we Pray.

Don’t give up!

I refuse to give up on God.

Father, help me identify that person for me.

God is Love.

Disengage from any hurtful relationship

Matthew 7

Which Marital Architectural Design Is Yours?

Which Marital Architectural Design Is Yours?

The Oxford Dictionary of English defined an architect as a person who designs buildings and in many cases also supervises their construction OR a person who is responsible for inventing or realizing a particular idea or project.

Hebrews 11:10 says For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God.

Nothing just exists by itself. It is made by something or someone. Relationship is one of those things. It is more spiritual than it is physical.

How do I mean? God is the creator of all things and He said everything He made is good…this includes your relationship and marriage.

But one good thing about Him is that asides from just creating, He also supervises and sees it to the end!

So no matter your level of prowess, academic hierarchy or skill, you can’t know it more than the creator even if you don’t care about His opinion.

Some people build their relationship on sex, some on money, others on physical appearance or mere feelings while some on such mundane things like tribal connection. You know what? Those kind of relationships can never stand the test of time.

Be sure God is in that relationship. Know it. Don’t put the foundation by yourself or with your limited human wisdom and then come back to meet Him to help you patch it. Ko le werk (it won’t work)!

The only way it will work is to bring down the whole thing and start building up again because if a foundation is faulty, it is just a matter of time before it starts crumbling. So how do you build right?

Jude verse 20 says But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit.

Yes in this building project, you and God both have a role to play. As you build, (praying in the Holy Ghost), He is supervising, ensuring you don’t put cement where you should put water.

He is ensuring you don’t ask Sade out, when it should be Sube. He is seeing to it that, you don’t say yes to Tunde when it should be Suberu!

2 Timothy 1:12 (KJV)… for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day.

God keeps. He alone preserves completely. Don’t give Him a part of your life and leave out the remaining. Don’t say God cannot understand romance. Who told you? Jehovah El-romantic Himself! Just let go and let God.

He is that architect that won’t take a consultation fee from you let alone follow up money.

This is the reason why your own relationship will still be waxing strong after 40 years unlike those that would break even before the 3rd month.

Just give God yourself in all totality. He is worth the investment!

I invest wisely. Jehovah is my designer architect.

I will not leave God out of any aspect of my life in Jesus’ name

Can you boldly say you have God’s backing in the relationship you are in or the one you hope to have?

Spend quality time building the home of your life in the Holy Ghost


How To Send Spies Into The Life Of Your Lover

How To Send Spies Into The Life Of Your Lover

Spies? Ha, Pastor! Which one is this again?

Spy Bawo?

Are we now going to join SSS or FBI because of love?


Two days, back I wrote about what to do when you are in love with a snub. I want to continue along that line, albeit with a twist.

You see, one of the most dangerous things on the planet to do is to marry a stranger!

It is suicidal!

The mistake we often make is to think once jeru trip is involved, you know the person!

I want to submit to you that you can have jeru trip outside marriage a million times and never know the person you are locking legs with!


Let’s go deeper!

But pastor, the scripture says Adam knew his wife and the next thing is that they begat!

Genesis 4:1 (KJV)
And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.

Does it not mean that jeru trip makes you really “know” a person? Yes, jeru trip means knowing the other person, ONLY IN MARRIAGE!

Every compromise outside marriage, the scripture never used the word “know” or “knew”

The scripture used the word “lay” or lie” rather!

Few examples:
Genesis 19:33 (KJV)  
And they made their father drink wine that night: and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father;

Genesis 34:2 (KJV)  
And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.

2 Samuel 11:4 (KJV)  
David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.

Okay, that is enough.

So we establish, jeru trip will not make you know anybody! The person only gets to know more demons! And that is not really nice.

My dear daughters on KHC, keep yourself. Forbid any hands sliding into your blouse. And keep your hands from diving into any trousers.

Run away from the anal and the oral. It is not only sinful but despicable and derogatory, dirty and with spiritual connotations.

The primary use of your mouth is to declare words of life and then to eat food, not to be sucking… if you know, you know.

So, jeru trip will not make me know him or her. So how do I know this lover since I shouldn’t marry a stranger? How do I send spies?

The first occurrence of the word “spy” is in Numbers 13.

Numbers 13:17-19 (KJV)  
And Moses sent them to spy out the land of Canaan, and said unto them, Get you up this way southward, and go up into the mountain:  [18]  And see the land, what it is; and the people that dwelleth therein, whether they be strong or weak, few or many;  [19]  And what the land is that they dwell in, whether it be good or bad; and what cities they be that they dwell in, whether in tents, or in strong holds;

Message Translation:

Numbers 13:17-19 (MSG)  
When Moses sent them off to scout out Canaan, he said, “Go up through the Negev and then into the hill country.  [18]  Look the land over, see what it is like. Assess the people: Are they strong or weak? Are there few or many?  [19]  Observe the land: Is it pleasant or harsh? Describe the towns where they live: Are they open camps or fortified with walls?

They were asked to observe the land, not to go and desecrate it.

They brought back the fruit of the land as samples, not to go and plant something there.

Find out whether he is open or he is a wall. Spy!

If he is open, after marriage, your destiny will open up. Your career will be enhanced. If he is a wall, you will be stopped.

Everything will stop moving.

You travel to that land by traveling into his mind. It is conversational, not sexual.

It has nothing to do with the body. No kissing is involved. A spy never starts kissing the person he is meant to spy on!

How many people are you going to kiss before “You may now kiss the bride:”

Haba! Shebi it’s just kissing. Okay, ask Jesus about the kiss of Judas.

Oh, Pastor, I have gone far.

No “far” is too far for God. You can always return.

You can start all over. Let God give you a fresh start. Cooperate with God for I can tell you, after twenty years in marriage, it takes God all the way.

On my next write up, I will still go deeper.

May God bless your relationship!

May God send help your way.

You will not be confused,. You will not be disconcerted. My God will help you. You will rejoice at the end. Make up your mind!

No more compromise!

No more, not me!

Yes Lord!

I am wise. I am not careless.

Lord, help me to “stand” for you

Numbers 13:17 (CEV)  Before Moses sent them into Canaan, he said: After you go through the Southern Desert of Canaan, continue north into the hill country

Decide to stop all sexual relationships.

Numbers 13

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The Capacity To Love And Be Loved

The Capacity To Love And Be Loved

Quick questions on love:

If you receive your lover now, can you date without locking your legs in Jeru trip? Hebrews 13:4

If you get married this year, do you have the capacity to MAKE a home? Titus 2:4-5 (NKJV)

If you get married now, do you know how to stay drunk only on your spouse’s love? Proverbs 5:19 (ERV)

If you have children now, do you have the capacity to train them as godly seeds unto the Lord? Malachi 2:15

I was speaking with my brother recently, and he made a very strong point. He opined that we, most times, are the ones that prolong the manifestation of the blessings of the Lord upon our lives.

The case under consideration was the journey of the Israelites from Egypt to the land of Canaan.

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That journey would have taken 40 days had they travelled via a particular route, but God made them journey through the wilderness, a longer way!

“Then it came to pass, when Pharaoh had let the people go, that God did not lead them by way of the land of the Philistines, although that was near; for God said, “Lest perhaps the people change their minds when they see war, and return to Egypt.” So God led the people around by way of the wilderness of the Red Sea…” Exodus 13:17-18 NKJV

Because of a lack of CAPACITY!

They didn’t have the capacity to take on the Philistines they would have met had they travelled through the 40 days route!

So we note that God was willing to hand over the land of Canaan to the Israelites immediately, but they didn’t have the capacity to take the land immediately!

Beloved, God may be willing to hand over your blessings, including your love/spouse, to you, but the big question is: Do you have the capacity to take/handle that blessing?


It’s not in the character of God to hand over something to you that you don’t have the capacity to handle!

God doesn’t want His blessing to be your destroying force, and so He holds back till you grow up.

Now let me bring this point home with an example.

When you receive your lover and you’re in courtship, the desire to explore one another’s body will be there… there will be strong sexual attraction.
So God will therefore desire for us to build capacity to the point that we can be in a relationship with our lover, and yet not cower under that pressure… and yet not compromise with Jeru trip.

CAPACITY is key!

Do you have the capacity?

So our prayers should not only be “Lord, bless me… send my lover to me!”, it should also be “Lord, increase my capacity… help me build what it takes to handle my lover… what it takes to be a lover, father/mother, husband/wife, etc.”

Once we build the required capacity to handle what God wants to bring into our lives, it won’t be long and that which is to come will come.


Finally, see this:

“Enlarge the place of your tent, And let them stretch out the curtains of your dwellings; Do not spare; Lengthen your cords, And strengthen your stakes. For you shall expand to the right and to the left, And your descendants will inherit the nations, And make the desolate cities inhabited. Isaiah 54:2-3 NKJV

Did you see that instruction?

Because the Lord wants to expand you tremendously… because He wants to add a lover to you, a befitting job/business to you, increase to you, etc… He instructs…

Enlarge your tents… stretch out… lengthen… strengthen… in essence, BUILD CAPACITY TO BE ABLE TO HOLD THAT WHICH IS COMING!

So because of a lack of capacity, God passed the Israelites through the wilderness, to shield them from what was above them [1 Corinthians 10:13], and also to train them, to build the capacity in them required for taking their promised land.

What happened in the wilderness?

Why did the journey take them 40 years?

Keep watching this space.

Blessed? Then share for others.

I am strengthened to take that which God has in mind for me. I enlarge… I take root downwards…

“Fear not, you WORM Jacob,… I will help you,” says the Lord… “Behold, I will MAKE you into a new threshing sledge with sharp teeth…” Isaiah 41:14-15 NKJV Lord MAKE ME!

God doesn’t want His blessing to be your destroying force, and so He holds back till you grow up.

Work out a daily to-do list on how to build capacity… times of prayer, Scripture study, reading of Christian literature, etc.

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