Five Signs That Shows Your Marriage Needs Help

Five Signs That Shows Your Marriage Needs Help

We all need help at some point or another. Needing help just shows that we are only humans and there is nothing to be ashamed of when we need help.

Some couples out of shame and not being sincere have sabotaged their marriage. In the physical, we have hospitals and Doctors to the sick. What of if the sick is ashamed and refuses to open up or go to the hospital? He simply dies in his sickness.

Help is always available to whosoever will seek the necessary help when necessary.

In marriage too, we need help at different times for different reasons.

Your marriage may need help if these 5 signs are obvious but of course, it is not limited to these 5 things

1. If the wife is always denying her husband jeru trip either to punish him or get her way.
The need for jeru trip in man is so enormous that this need has to be met. A man is satisfied and in optimal condition when he has regular Jerusalem trips. Yes, wives could have a lot of reasons why they deny them but please this has to be talked about. Seek help through books or counselors. Don’t keep quiet. As this could be detrimental to your marriage.

2. When there is regular misunderstanding and strife that lingers.
Find the source of your constant quarrels and prayerfully get to the root of it.
Obviously, you will marry someone opposite of you. Your spouse will be of a different temperament to you. Try and accommodate your spouse’s excess while you grow up to maturity together.

3. When the couples keep secrets from each other
There are different vital information that your spouse consider you should not keep away from them. Keeping such information away for what ever reasons could create a cram in the marriage. Trust is broken and you never see yourself as being naked and not ashamed.

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4. When there is still parental influence
The Bible clearly says the husband should leave father and mother and cleave to his wife {Gen 2: 23}
Parents no doubt wants what is best for their children but we have to obey scriptures for our marriage to work like God planned it. Parents could be sentimental and biased when it comes to their opinion or judging issues in case there is a misunderstanding. So avoid the involvement of your own parents in your marital affairs as much as possible.

5. When there is extra marital affairs
When there is extra marital affairs either by the husband or wife or from both couples, it’s a serious sign that all is not well. What ever the justification whether out of retaliation, offense, being promiscuous, ignorance, neglect from either spouse, health conditions, financial constraints or whatever the reason. Whenever there is infidelity there is serious problem.
Maybe it is not a full blown affair, it is still under an emotional affair or an office affair they are all danger signs.
Seek help before it gets out of hands.

God bless your marriage

I seek the needed help when I need it.

Lord surround me with my helpers and let me recognize them.

Psa 20:2 Send thee help from the sanctuary, and strengthen thee out of Zion;

I will sincerely look into my marriage and identify areas where we need help

Rom 8

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Pastor Sophia Bola Okunowo

Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it's purpose.

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