Healthy Ways To Handle Conflicts In Marriage

Healthy Ways To Handle Conflicts In Marriage

Healthy Ways To Handle Conflicts In Marriage

Muyi and his wife seem to have made one severe mistake of marrying each other. There is never a day they don’t engage in heated arguments that keeps drifting their 9months marriage apart.
They have both concluded they were not meant for each other and that what they felt at the beginning was just a mirage that will soon disappear.

Upon confiding in his best friend, Tee, about the turbulence in his marriage, Tee gave him some words of advice that changed Muyi’s marriage for the better forever.

There is no marriage on Earth that does not have its own low times. Two people with two different genders, from two different backgrounds cannot stay together under the same roof and not disagree on many issues.

Even with our siblings that we grew up together from the first day, we disagree at different times. How much more an entirely different person we met just few years back?

Marriage is not a child’s play and only those who are willing to go all into it will enjoy its fruits. Learning to treat your spouse as a partner and not as a mere competitor is very key.

And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. (Ephesians 4:32 KJV)

Your spouse will step on your toes often but you have to develop the ability to see beyond that offence and help them to be better and your marriage will be better for it.

Meeting your spouse’s mistakes with a healing response enables your marriage to grow more loving and your marriage will become a safe haven, rather than a noisy den.

Do not ever try to control your spouse, doing that will only cause him/her not to be loved and validated by you and this puts you in a danger of losing your marriage.

Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. (Romans 14:19 KJV)

Let your marriage breathe love, warmth and openness. Be willing to communicate in the most loving way. Correct each other in love, without contempt.

Learn healthy ways to connect and compliment each other the way God intends from the beginning.

I see your marriage waxing stronger in love.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage constantly breathes love, warmth and openness as my spouse and I are continually committed to becoming our better selves and our marriage keeps flourishing rather than deteriorating.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the Name of Jesus, teach my spouse and I to resolve our conflicts the way You intend from the beginning and not to constantly drift apart with baseless arguments

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. (Romans 14:19 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Minister love to your spouse today.

BIBLE READING FOR TODAY
Ephesians 4

 

8 Responses

  1. Mr Ogunbameru Oluwafemi says:

    Loud and clear with powerful words that can feed a dieing marriage/home in other to jerk back to life.
    Conclusively, Angels do have answers even when the mind is blurred/confused
    So blessed by this Mrs Ogunbameru
    Thanks so much for being a blessing

  2. Mrs Grace Afolabi says:

    I see my marriage waxing stronger in love in Jesus’ name!

  3. Mrs Grace Afolabi says:

    I see my marriage waxing stronger in love in Jesus’ name!

  4. Abiodun says:

    My marriage will wax stronger in Jesus name

  5. Pastor Sophia says:

    THANKS.
    May we know how to resolve our conflicts and may our marriage wax strong in Jesus name.

  6. Maxwell says:

    Thank you ma….

    Your marriage won’t know sorrow…

  7. Oluwaseyi SENT says:

    Awesome piece.
    God help us all

  8. Olamide Jacob says:

    My marriage will wax stronger

    Thanks Mrs Ogunbameru

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