How To Prevent Our Love From Dwindling

How To Prevent Our Love From Dwindling


What really sustains marriage till death do us part is not only love.

Love is that feeling that makes you feel the butterflies in your tommy and makes your face glow when she is around.

It is that lovely feeling you feel that you know you are truly in love. We all however know that we don’ feel in love every time.

What keeps married couples married is not only love but commitment.

When two people are committed to each other, they understand the roles and assignment as husband and wife.

They stick to each other and their roles and function therein.

Love is a feeling. Life does happen when all the physical attributes are no longer there. Or they are there but they don’t just appeal any longer.

You better at such times make sure, you have more to hold on to than just feelings.

Feelings are so unreliable and they are so fickle.

When love in marriage is dwindling, we need to fan to flame our level of commitment to each other.

Renew your commitment to communication.

Renew your commitment to remaining faithful

Renew your commitment to being patient

Renew your commitment to being kind

Renew your commitment to being a help meet

Renew your commitment to being truthful.

Renew your commitment to being open and sincere

Renew your commitment to being thoughtful.

When we stay committed like this, our marriage is going to have a new flavour. It will bubble with strength. When love is dwindling, we need to check out our Saviour’s love. His was a commitment that never fails.

He suffered on the cross all because he had an everlasting, never ending, reckless love for us

May God teach us how to stay committed to one another.God bless your marriage

Confession of the day
I am committed to my spouse no matter what

Prayer for the day
Lord, help me stay committed to my spouse

Thoughts of the day
Feelings are fickle, commitments remain real

Action plan
Stay committed to your spouse

Bible reading
Matt 10

Pastor Sophia Bola Okunowo

Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it's purpose.

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