How To Send Spies Into The Life Of Your Lover

Spies? Ha, Pastor! Which one is this again?

Spy Bawo?

Are we now going to join SSS or FBI because of love?


Two days, back I wrote about what to do when you are in love with a snub. I want to continue along that line, albeit with a twist.

You see, one of the most dangerous things on the planet to do is to marry a stranger!

It is suicidal!

The mistake we often make is to think once jeru trip is involved, you know the person!

I want to submit to you that you can have jeru trip outside marriage a million times and never know the person you are locking legs with!


Let’s go deeper!

But pastor, the scripture says Adam knew his wife and the next thing is that they begat!

Genesis 4:1 (KJV)
And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.

Does it not mean that jeru trip makes you really “know” a person? Yes, jeru trip means knowing the other person, ONLY IN MARRIAGE!

Every compromise outside marriage, the scripture never used the word “know” or “knew”

The scripture used the word “lay” or lie” rather!

Few examples:
Genesis 19:33 (KJV)  
And they made their father drink wine that night: and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father;

Genesis 34:2 (KJV)  
And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.

2 Samuel 11:4 (KJV)  
David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.

Okay, that is enough.

So we establish, jeru trip will not make you know anybody! The person only gets to know more demons! And that is not really nice.

My dear daughters on KHC, keep yourself. Forbid any hands sliding into your blouse. And keep your hands from diving into any trousers.

Run away from the anal and the oral. It is not only sinful but despicable and derogatory, dirty and with spiritual connotations.

The primary use of your mouth is to declare words of life and then to eat food, not to be sucking… if you know, you know.

So, jeru trip will not make me know him or her. So how do I know this lover since I shouldn’t marry a stranger? How do I send spies?

The first occurrence of the word “spy” is in Numbers 13.

Numbers 13:17-19 (KJV)  
And Moses sent them to spy out the land of Canaan, and said unto them, Get you up this way southward, and go up into the mountain:  [18]  And see the land, what it is; and the people that dwelleth therein, whether they be strong or weak, few or many;  [19]  And what the land is that they dwell in, whether it be good or bad; and what cities they be that they dwell in, whether in tents, or in strong holds;

Message Translation:

Numbers 13:17-19 (MSG)  
When Moses sent them off to scout out Canaan, he said, “Go up through the Negev and then into the hill country.  [18]  Look the land over, see what it is like. Assess the people: Are they strong or weak? Are there few or many?  [19]  Observe the land: Is it pleasant or harsh? Describe the towns where they live: Are they open camps or fortified with walls?

They were asked to observe the land, not to go and desecrate it.

They brought back the fruit of the land as samples, not to go and plant something there.

Find out whether he is open or he is a wall. Spy!

If he is open, after marriage, your destiny will open up. Your career will be enhanced. If he is a wall, you will be stopped.

Everything will stop moving.

You travel to that land by traveling into his mind. It is conversational, not sexual.

It has nothing to do with the body. No kissing is involved. A spy never starts kissing the person he is meant to spy on!

How many people are you going to kiss before “You may now kiss the bride:”

Haba! Shebi it’s just kissing. Okay, ask Jesus about the kiss of Judas.

Oh, Pastor, I have gone far.

No “far” is too far for God. You can always return.

You can start all over. Let God give you a fresh start. Cooperate with God for I can tell you, after twenty years in marriage, it takes God all the way.

On my next write up, I will still go deeper.

May God bless your relationship!

May God send help your way.

You will not be confused,. You will not be disconcerted. My God will help you. You will rejoice at the end. Make up your mind!

No more compromise!

No more, not me!

Yes Lord!

I am wise. I am not careless.

Lord, help me to “stand” for you

Numbers 13:17 (CEV)  Before Moses sent them into Canaan, he said: After you go through the Southern Desert of Canaan, continue north into the hill country

Decide to stop all sexual relationships.

Numbers 13

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  • Adejoke says:

    Waoh…. I am wise, no longer careless. Thanks Pastor

  • Oluwayemisi Abigael OLALEYE says:

    Wow. This is deep that I had to read again. God bless Pastor Dunamis!

  • Funmilola says:

    Iam wise! I’m not careless!

  • John Oluwawalemi says:

    I am wise! I am not Careless

  • Jesupelumi says:

    I am not careless

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