I Am Dating a Pastor/Prophet, But He Sleeps Around

I Am Dating a Pastor/Prophet, But He Sleeps Around

I am dating a pastor/prophet, and we are planning on getting married but by chance I discovered that when he goes for international ministration, he sleeps with women and just recently, I caught him in the act of masturbation and also a conversation, that suggests that he wants to visit spiritualist for additional powers.

He always speaks of well known pastors in Ghana that are either using occultist powers or are sleeping with women.
This was before I discovered his activities. I confronted him and admitted that yes he was in the act of masturbation and the women (before we met) issue were true.

He broke down and went into a fasting and is intending to undergo deliverance. He however, claimed that although he had considered the spiritualist’s help, he never went to see them.
Because he feared God. Sir, I am so confused now. I am torn between breaking up with him or standing by him.

Before we started dating I really prayed it and had God’s approval but this discovery is too much for me.

He is still on the mountain fasting and prayer. He pastored a church in Russia but was arrested and deported in 2017 and since then he always complains that he has lost his passion for the work of God.
What should I do?

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This Post Has 6 Comments

  1. Sylvester Obinna

    He has lost passion for God? And he is supposed to lewd your home.

    There are too many issues which I don’t think you can handle.

    Why was he deported?
    Who is he accountable to?
    If he is sleeping around before marriage, what do you think will happen after?

    I believe the spirit of God is telling you what to do right now.

  2. John Oluwawalemi

    Just seeing the first few paragraphs what was on my mind was “fire on the mountain , run, run, run, run” because I feel there is a link between the occultic stuff and sleeping with women.

    My question is ( I want you to think about this) are you 100% sure that it was God, cos there are times we allow emotions to cloud our judgement.

    God will not lead his children wrong. So I’d like you to go back to God and re-confirm.

    1. Fatima Almeida

      Wow this is serious, I believe u need to be sure if it’s God that spoke. If not u will be in a great danger nd u wld not enjoy your marriage. It’s only God that can help you. Stay blessed.

      1. LILIAN

        When in doubt , I think the best thing to do is to go back to God and asked him again, one thing I have come to know about God is that he’s never tired of hearing us , and He’s also never tired of replying us.

  3. Joke

    You really need to go back to God, because only Him is not an author of confusion.

  4. Chinedu

    There are so many red flags here, and I suggest you should hold on with the plans of getting married. Do not rush into it. If he is pressurising you, tell him you need more time. If necessary, break away from the relationship, Do not allow your emotions to cloud your judgements.

    God is revealing things He wants you to see before entering into this union, It is better you discovered them before agreeing to go to the altar with Him.
    Fasting and Prayer is good, but He needs to be accountable to someone to help him with this process. Otherwise, He will go back to his former ways if not careful.

    Take out more time to pray on your own, and trust God to lead you. If you do not feel convinced and led, DO NOT go ahead, unless you want to start dealing with these issues when you get married to him. Let God lead you aright.

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