May Bae Be A Prayer Partner And Not A Prayer Point

May Bae Be A Prayer Partner And Not A Prayer Point

Who doesn’t want a prayer partner?

Who wants to be praying for a husband or wife to change all one’s life?
Yes, nobody is perfect, but that is not like seeing a major character defect and yet diving into it line, hook and sinker, the boat and the fisherman, all because you are desperate to marry!

Remove that word”desperate”from your life!

Desperate people regret later.

Desperate people cry later.

You want to marry him or her because of height. You love his accent. You love her hot legs. You love his voice! It shakes you in the marrows. You love his fingers.

For real?

All those things are going to change. Hot legs will grow fat. Six packs will become amusement park! That afro hair may all give way to baldness. The figure eight may be lost into a round figure.

There has to be something more that what is on the surface.

You need to get deeper not through jeru trip but through prayers and observations.

You need to pray now that God should open your eyes to see what you cannot see but that you to see right now.

You want to marry a prayer partner that you can hold hands together and pray and be a united front against the enemy, not that your spouse is the very one who keeps opening the door for the devil into your family through unfaithfulness and insincerity!

Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV)  And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

And so, look out for physical attraction, it’s great, but then look at the fear of God. When you combine both, you are good!

Does this person really love God?

Don’t just settle for anything or anybody because age is no longer on your side or so you think!

Stop embracing the thoughts that God has abandoned you.

That thought is strong enough to bring delays.

Rather, embrace the love of God. He is not trying to punish you.

He wants the best for you and the best is what you will get in Jesus name!

I pray for you this morning, God will make a way for you in Jesus name’!

Lord, help me indeed!

Lord, stop me if I am making a wrong desperate decision.

Ecclesiastes 4:9 (MSG)  It’s better to have a partner than go it alone. Share the work, share the wealth.

Take some time to read a good book on relationships.

Romans 8

Pastor Dunamis Tunde Okunowo

Husband of one. Father of Three. Mentor of thousands. Impact to nations. Addicted writer. Web Developer. Pastor at Shouts of Grace Center, Ibadan, Nigeria. Facilitator of Kisses and Huggs Club. Follow on Instagram HERE

This Post Has 5 Comments

  1. Sylvester Obinna

    Lore, stop me if I am making a desperate decision.

  2. Sylvester Obinna

    Lord, stop me if I am making the wrong decision.

  3. Sylvester Obinna

    Lord, stop me if I am making the wrong decision.

  4. john irediran

    help me Lord

  5. Jesupelumi

    I am helped of God

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