Meeting The Needs of Your Spouse

Toba and Sola are new love birds. Their marriage is just two years old. They were campus sweethearts. While they were courting, you could sense their genuine love for each other miles away. They were an example to both believers and non believers. They were sure they would live happily thereafter.

However, few months into marriage, they were left in a discombobulated form. It seems as though they never courted. Their love balloon was punctured in several places and as such, could no longer fly. They began to ask if they indeed married God’s will for their lives.

“You have changed”, they kept yelling at each other day in, day out.

But the question is: did they really change? No! Marriage only brought out the real deal. What they didn’t realize is the fact they both have need that need to be met. Their needs are different and have to me t differently, simple!

That’s why it is often said that “marriage is not for boys”, because it takes a matured person to leave out his/her own need and focus on that of the partner.

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. (1 Peter 3:7 KJV)

Basically, a man wants jeru trip and respect. A woman wants time and attention.

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As a loving husband, ensure you spend quality time with your wife. Give her the attention she needs. Don’t be too busy with work while you are gradually loosing your home. The reality is that if you don’t spend time with her, another person will.

Don’t put your work first. I’ve emphasized that before now. God, family then work. That’s the order. A deviation from this order is an invitation to chaos.

As a loving wife, don’t deny your husband jeru trip. Is it food? Yes it is. It is food and it should be served well, not in a wrapper or some loosely fitted dresses.

The moment you don’t meet this need, he begins to see you as a disrespectful being and if he doesn’t fear God and man, he will resolve to sorting himself out.

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. (1 Corinthians 7:5 KJV)

Defraud ye not. Deny ye not. Jeru trip shouldn’t be a source of punishment or a reward system in the home. It is a duty and should be seen as that.

May God help us all.

In the name of Jesus, I still every storm ravaging that home. I declare the shalom of god over that situation.

CONFESSION FOR TODAY
I honour my husband/wife.

PRAYER FOR TODAY
Lord, enable me for this journey ahead.

THOUGHT FOR TODAY
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. (1 Corinthians 7:5 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR TODAY
Decide to meet the needs of your spouse.

BIBLE READING FOR TODAY
Eph 5

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