You know when a husband chooses to become a CID.
Always snooping around his wife’s telephone conversation.
Always checking at her call history and chats and laptop.
By the time the husband is checking his wife’s bag, there is a problem.
When a wife does same thing for her husband checking his stuffs for any implicating thing , there’s a problem.
First the problem of trust , insincerity and lack of openness is established.
Where your spouse has to discover some things about you or your past relationships is anti-marriage covenant.
The marriage covenant is such that you have to be open to each other.
Lay it bear at the table before your spouse.
Some people believe ‘if I open up, I will break her heart and she will not trust me.’
The mere fact that you didn’t open up and that you were discovered means you can never be trusted and you lie.
There is no mistake that is too much that can’t be forgiven.
You may hurt your spouse, he/she may become disappointed , but it is for a while.
It is the truth that sets free.
You will eventually be respected and trusted for your sincerity.
I believe this is where truthfulness and being sincere starts.
Don’t wait till you are discovered.
Be sincere . Be open.
This is true repentance.
Stop all these hide and seek.
It is time to seek God and turn to Him in repentance.
Psalms 51:1-3 (KJV) Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.  Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.  For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.
A place of brokenness before God and man is a place of openness.
This our year of overflow.
To experience an overflow in every area of your life you have to repent of all sins.
Come out open before God and before your spouse.
God is Merciful. He is faithful and just to forgive and blot out all our sins and transgression.
Sin will not have dominion over us in Jesus name.
Ask God to help you and He will.
Every hidden sin must be brought out in the open.
Adam chose to be insincere and that landed him in serious problem.
You don’t want to imagine what your secret sins is doing to you and your posterity.
God bless your marriage.
Confession for the day
I am truthful and sincere in my marriage
Prayer for the day
Lord, have mercy on me. Let me come to a place of brokenness with you.
Thought of the day
If am insincere, i will still be discovered. I will be sincere, and our issues dealt with
Open up your past to your spouse.
Bible Reading For Today
1 Cor 13
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Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it’s purpose.