As a wife you have to be sensitive in Marriage.
Your husband is not completely immune to the attacks of the enemy and intruders
That is why every woman has got to be at alert to ensure their homes and marriages are not carelessly left opened to intruders.
You want to be careful, always found at your duty post.
And if I may ask, what or where is our duty post?
Our duty post is to “compass” our man, spiritually, emotionally, physically and other wise.
The sexuality of men is quiet different from that of women.
That is why God said in Genesis that it is not good for man to alone.
And the LORD God said, [It is] not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
These signs will help you to change your tactics knowing that there’s likely to be problems.
I believe the assignment of wives is essentially to keep the home and of course our husbands.
These are the signs that your husband might be unfaithful. However, there must be several combinations of these before concluding.
1. He suddenly doesn’t want to eat at home again.
He comes home full all the time.
You need to be concerned and not fight him.
You need to prayerfully and ask him what the matter is.
Don’t get angry and give him the silent treatment.
You might just drive him into the waiting hands of strange women.
2. He passwords his phones and other gadgets.
He changes the passwords as soon as he knows you know them.
He is secretive about his calls and text messages.
He doesn’t like answering his calls when you are around.
When he answers his call he answers in mono-syllables.
3. He does not bother you as such for jeru trip.
He even refuses you sometimes.
He claims he is tired every time.
Watch out, he may be satisfying himself outside or he is masturbating.
It is not impossible he has a medical condition, or something is troubling
him or the mid life crisis. All these can affect a man’s libido.
Which ever way, do not keep quiet about this, talk to him, seek counsel.
4. He surprises you with gifts unexpectedly.
He suddenly becomes so nice, for a while.
They are mostly guilt gifts to pacify his conscience for having violated you, especially when you know him to be stingy.
5. He is happy and excited when either of you is traveling.
He loves it when you are traveling or he has to go out of town.
He seems tired of you and the kids.
Sometimes he can’t bear to be around you maybe out of a feeling of shame or he prefers being out of home.
This is not an exhaustive list.
And definitely, not enough to conclude and start fighting your husband.
This is just a wake up call to point you to signs and symptoms that there are problems which need to be attended to on time before getting out of hands.
God bless your marriage.
Confession of the day
I discern any trouble signs in my marriage.
Prayer for the day
Lord, I stand prayerfully for my husband as an intercessor. The LORD KEEPS US.
I am sensitive to my husband. I do not open the door for the enemy
Thoughts of the day
My marriage is my life time investment. It must be protected
Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it’s purpose.