I think every wife should go and ask their husbands just one thing they will like for them to be doing for them.
There are so many things to be done, that sometimes a wife is confused as to what she has to do .
We hear of stories of husband who are not satisfied with jeru trip and they are not talking about it to their wives.
Some of our husbands love their food in a particular way, but pressure of work and other things have prevented wives from doing this all the time.
So you see, every wife will have the do the task of finding out, (maybe every once in a while), what their husbands want.
Some times,we are busy focusing on the wrong things or the less important things leaving the very important things.
When you ask your husband what really it is he wants, it may sound ridiculous, funny or even ‘stupid’ (lol.. did I just say that…)
It will also help our focus.
Another thing It does is that it creates room for talking, discussing and revealing ourselves.
That is really true intimacy.
Who we have heart to heart talks all of the time is who we are bonded with.
Another thing it does is that it shows our commitment to want to work on our marriage.
Our husbands becomes proud of us and the fact that we are willing to make things work.
You want to find out what matters most to your husband.
Some may say they prefer you to be more loving and romantic, they want you to touch them more, they want their sexual life to be enjoyable and not monotonous, they want good food, they want you to be respectful, they want you to pay attention more to the home and kids, the list is as wide as it possibly can be.
Like the words of Mary to the servant ‘whatever he asks you to do, do it’.
God bless you marriage.
Confession of the day
I am well pleasing to my husband. Our marriage is blissful.
Prayer of the day
Lord have mercy on us and heal our marriage.
Thought of the day 1 Peter 3:1 (KJV)
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
Ask your husband what is the one thing he wants you to do better
Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it’s purpose.