The truth must be told.
Every couple has an assignment and purpose from the Lord.
God is an investor.
He invested so much in us and expected us to go forth and multiply his investment on us and our marriages.
I would like to talk to us about three aspects of our marriage.
3. Jeru trip
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?.Couples should see to it that they are in agreement all of the time.
It doesn’t cost any thing to agree with your spouse, but it cost a whole lot not be in agreement with your spouse.
When you are not in agreement, eventually you open the door for the enemy to afflict and torment the marriage.
Most of the crisis in marriage are an accumulation of years of walking in disobedience.
You are married and you want to do your own thing.It cannot work.
In marriage you have to understand the marriage institution itself as a living entity that thrives on rules and regulations.
You have to learn these rules for your marriage to work.
This is the live-wire of any marriage.
Some people are natural talkers. They talk about every thing and anything.
There is never a dull moment with them. They say their minds out and don’t hide their feelings.
Now this does not make them superior or always right.
Couples are encouraged to always talk and learn to converse as friends.
Gist, gossip, talk about your fears, become vulnerable to each other.
3. Jeru trip
This is very, very important to the health of the marriage.
In fact, how healthy a marriage is can be known by how frequent and how intimate their sexual life is.
The couple has to work things out.
For example, the wife doesn’t enjoy jeru trip, has a low libido or has a medical condition, it is not the end of the world.
Walk through this path together.
Be patient with her.
Maybe it’s the husband that is shy and doesn’t talk or is always tired.
Don’t just keep quiet.
There are some natural medicines or even fruits that can help out.
Just seek help and do that early before things get out of hands.
Enjoy your marriage.
Confession of the day
I have grace to devote myself to my marriage
Prayer for the day
Lord, help me to take seriously the things important to my marriage
Thoughts of the day
There are rules that govern the marriage institution. I have to obey and honour them
I pay more attention to my marriage
Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it’s purpose.