Guys, this is for you.
You could have all the skills and sweet words, but there are still some critical things a lady still watches out for her man to do and if you are lacking in these areas, she might not feel loved enough.
So what are these things?
1. You must know her Love language.
You must know it and be speaking it to her. The fact that you like gifts or keep buying stuff for her might not be her language.
Most ladies would appreciate if you buy stuffs for them but is that her love language?
Do you spend enough time with her?
Do you keep the communication line opened at all times?
These are things you should check.
Ask her; what things do you like?
When you begin to do these things, then you make her feel loved.
2. Show her affection.
Ladies like affection, to be loved and pampered.
Treat her right.
Put her first in all matters of course after Jesus.
Let her feel she means the world to you.
See what the bible says.
Eph 5:25 KJV
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Look at the AMP version
Husbands, love your wives [seek the highest good for her and surround her with a caring, unselfish love], just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her.
Seek the highest good for her, surround her with an unselfish love. Love her as christ loved the church and gave up his life for her.
3. Listen to her
Ladies like to be listened to because they talk more than the guys.
You might not answer immediately, or they might not need you to talk at that moment, just listen as they talk.
When you need to say or add something, pls do add.
But for the major part, just listen to what they have to tell you.
The way a woman is wired is quite different from the way a man is wired. So you need to understand her and be patient with her.
4. Pray with her.
A woman that fears God yearns for a godly man who loves and fears God as well.
Pray with her and let her know that you want the best for her.
Let her know that she is safe with you.
Let her know that she has a spiritual covering over her.
Encourage her also spiritually. Build her up.
When you do this, she can and will open up to you.
She knows that she has a check.
She also knows that she has somebody that she can pray together with.
I pray these few tips would help and direct you in your relationship.
CONFESSION FOR TODAY
I will love my fiancée as Christ loves the church.
PRAYER FOR TODAY
Father, help me to love my fiancée as I ought to.
THOUGHT FOR TODAY
For God so loved the world, that he gave his son for us. What have you given to prove your love?
ACTION POINT FOR TODAY
Show some love today.
BIBLE READING FOR TODAY
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Mrs Fehintola Ganiyu is a lover of God, and a lover of his people who believes in God’s love for humanity.