Twenty-One Qualities of a ‘Fend for Yourself Husband’ – Part 2

Twenty-One Qualities of a ‘Fend for Yourself Husband’ – Part 2

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We started up this topic yesterday and I will just conclude it today.

Every wife should pray not to marry a ‘fend for yourself husband’ or that our husbands should not change and become a ‘fend for yourself husband’
We have to be careful not to be instrumental to making our husbands become a ‘fend for yourself husband’. We have to keep love alive and always try to do things that makes our marriage interesting.

Never allow your husband to get to that point where he is just in the marriage for the sake of being there. Let him see you as a force to reckon with.

Fulfill this scripture

‘Pro 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

Husbands, please know that you can not afford to be a ‘fend for yourself husband’. God has a mandate on your life to fulfill. You can’t live your life as you please. Know that God will judge every evil and wicked behavior to your wife.

The scriptures can not be broken.

Mal 2:15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.

Now the concluding part of qualities of a ‘fend for yourself husband’.

12. He does not pay for the school fees of his children. You must fend for yourself and your children.

13. He does not discuss anything with his wife.

14. He does not talk to his wife or talk about his wife in public.

15. He does not have regular jeru trip and have foreplay with his wife. You must fend for yourself if you want it.

17. He does not take his wife out on dates or dinner. You have to fend for yourself.

18. A husband who is a bad example to his children. Find a better example for your children.

19. He is not faithful to his wife nor does he value the family God has given him.

20. He expects the wife to take care of him. He is grossly irresponsible.

21. A husband that does not buy things for his wife. If you want anything, get it for yourself.

May our husbands not become a fend for yourself husband in Jesus name. Those husbands showing these tendencies, we break such evil and pray for wisdom and strength to do the will of God.

God bless our marriage

Husband: I am a responsible husband.
Wife: My husband is responsible.

Pray genuinely for your husband.

Ephesians 5:25 (KJV) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

If you are a guilty husband, repent today.

Eph 5

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Pastor Sophia Bola Okunowo

Sophia Bolanle Okunowo pastors alongside her husband at Shouts Of Grace Center in Ibadan. She is an administrator with a Health Provider company. She desires to see marriages blessed and fulfilling it's purpose.

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