Which Marital Architectural Design Is Yours?

The Oxford Dictionary of English defined an architect as a person who designs buildings and in many cases also supervises their construction OR a person who is responsible for inventing or realizing a particular idea or project.

Hebrews 11:10 says For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God.

Nothing just exists by itself. It is made by something or someone. Relationship is one of those things. It is more spiritual than it is physical.

How do I mean? God is the creator of all things and He said everything He made is good…this includes your relationship and marriage.

But one good thing about Him is that asides from just creating, He also supervises and sees it to the end!

So no matter your level of prowess, academic hierarchy or skill, you can’t know it more than the creator even if you don’t care about His opinion.

Some people build their relationship on sex, some on money, others on physical appearance or mere feelings while some on such mundane things like tribal connection. You know what? Those kind of relationships can never stand the test of time.

Be sure God is in that relationship. Know it. Don’t put the foundation by yourself or with your limited human wisdom and then come back to meet Him to help you patch it. Ko le werk (it won’t work)!

The only way it will work is to bring down the whole thing and start building up again because if a foundation is faulty, it is just a matter of time before it starts crumbling. So how do you build right?

Jude verse 20 says But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit.

Yes in this building project, you and God both have a role to play. As you build, (praying in the Holy Ghost), He is supervising, ensuring you don’t put cement where you should put water.

He is ensuring you don’t ask Sade out, when it should be Sube. He is seeing to it that, you don’t say yes to Tunde when it should be Suberu!

2 Timothy 1:12 (KJV)… for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day.

God keeps. He alone preserves completely. Don’t give Him a part of your life and leave out the remaining. Don’t say God cannot understand romance. Who told you? Jehovah El-romantic Himself! Just let go and let God.

He is that architect that won’t take a consultation fee from you let alone follow up money.

This is the reason why your own relationship will still be waxing strong after 40 years unlike those that would break even before the 3rd month.

Just give God yourself in all totality. He is worth the investment!

I invest wisely. Jehovah is my designer architect.

I will not leave God out of any aspect of my life in Jesus’ name

Can you boldly say you have God’s backing in the relationship you are in or the one you hope to have?

Spend quality time building the home of your life in the Holy Ghost


  • Sylvester Obinna says:

    Jehovah El-romantic will teach me what I need to know.

  • Gina says:

    I ask for the backing of the Holy Spirit,with Him I can never go wrong….. Thank you Jesus!
    (Jehovah El romantic)lol

  • Boluwatife says:

    God is my designer architect!

  • Oluwakemi Yetunde Taiwo says:

    God is involved in all aspects of my life. Amen, Thank you

  • uche says:

    God is my relationship designer.

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