I'm in a four-month-old relationship. We both love God and the things if God. We are both committed to our local assembly.  However, we have serious doctrinal issues, especially in the area of prayers. How do we settle it?

We met back on campus and dated for over two years. He graduated before I did and got a well-paying job after I graduated I was posted to a very place but he wasn't happy about it and he wanted me to redeploy. I wasn't sure I want to because I would have to lie to get...

I met this young man two years ago in UK when I went for my Msc and I decided to date him after having a conviction in my heart about him but something happened a few months ago when one of his friends came around and we all hung out but to my surprise, the guy was my...

My wife has been denying me sex for weeks now.I understand she's gone through a lot as a growing-up young girl, but she keeps refusing help to speak to someone who can help, claiming those mentors have also got their own issues not resolved. I am tempted to go out and...

How does one handle a lot of "can we see" by brothers? Most come from the point of "so I can get to know you," let's just talk, just to see......and you don't want to be seen around with people anyhow, you also don't have all the time Yes, you know you will marry a...

Is it right for a child of God and a Christian brother to deny his wife of 7 years of a legal marriage certificate after getting married in church knowing fully well that the certificate is very important for his wife?And he is trying to claim a legal right to the...

What should I do, knowing that I am having an issue of 30 seconds (premature ejaculation) as a man, after praying and giving and trying all treatments both herbs and prescribed medicines, still same problem. Thinking of staying single due to this embarrassing illness,...

I am a single lady of 38 years, a Christian and I cherish my relationship with God. I come from a closely-knit family and am the second to the last child. I am writing this having just dried my tears so I can see clearly. I have been praying to God for not just a...

My husband always wants me to submit my money and we spend it together but he doesn't carry me along with his own money but though he spends it for the family. What do I do? I want to know how and when his money is coming in too.  

I caught my husband cheating and challenged him, but he denied it. When I later gave my evidences, he was shocked. Since then he has been keeping to himself. How do I win him back and how do I trust him again . Like I am afraid he might contract a sexually transmitted...

My wife works with a financial institution and earns four times more than I do. I pay about 80% of the bills but things are getting expensive by the day. She has refused to take up some financial responsibilities, despite my explanations, saying that's the "job" of...

My parents want me to marry the son of their business partner who is not handsome nor appealing, though rich. I don't like him, not to talk of love. I don't know how to handle my parents and I don't want to displease them. What can I do?  

My husband’s mother is a witch. This I can confirm. My husband has no clue, but this woman will appear to me in my dreams and be stomping on my chest. I don’t know how to tell him. I planned to tell our Pastor this coming week. My husband is so close to him that he is...

My wife never listens to anything and she is very disrespectful. I don’t know what else to do, even our Pastor has intervened, yet no solution. How can a woman be that stubborn and strong-willed? Sometimes I think she doesn’t want this marriage because, in our five...

My husband has been sleeping in the sitting room for the past three weeks. He has not touched me, neither has he come back to the bedroom. He was the one that offended me and shouted at me and yet he is still the one getting angry. I don’t understand exactly what he...

How does a full time minister survive in a ministry where he is not paid stipend, how will he provide for his family. Is it advisable to marry such a man? What else can he do in order not to depend on his church members for help. What can the wife to be do to support...

I caught my husband cheating, and he apologized and showed remorse. But I haven't been able to trust him again. I told him to sever every contact with the side chick, he said he has, but I don't know why I am not believing him. Have been looking for a way to get...

I'd been friends with this guy for close to 9 years before he opened up about his feelings for me. We were getting along well until late last year when I suddenly noticed he distanced himself from me. I finally confronted him about it, he said he felt I was...

My husband is someone looking to go into ministry and I am aware, he doesn't work, initially, he said God instructed him not to work but looking to work for a ministry that was permitted but the ministry has refused to recruit. He is so broke, in fact, the funding of...

Good morning. I'm married but find it hard to ask for money from my husband. I know we talked about money before marriage but I can't remember what we said. We are both workerS and I think perchance we have indirectly agreed on me using my money for household expenses...

I really don't know how to start but as a divorcee, God helped me to stay for 3 years without even thinking of getting close to any man, I was deeply in service and God raised helpers for me. I got a job and recovered from the effect of the past. The job is so...

Good morning sir. I would like to seek your advice about this matter. Before long (early 2022), my current fiance proposed marriage and went to meet my pastor. My pastor got to find out that he's yet to be a committed worker in his own local church, however during...

Hello Pastor, I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, He has done the knocking about 8 months ago.My fiancé is financially down, though he is working but things are not going well for him at all.He doesn't even have a penny in the bank to do some small...

I discovered recently that my husband has been dating a girl since 2018. He rented an apartment for her and has been giving her a monthly allowance since then. They are even planning to marry without my knowledge but the girl insisted that I must be aware before her...

It's been 5 years now since I got married to my husband. But any time I am in need of his help financially he must have one excuse or another other but he used to go out of his comfort zone for his family no matter what.    

My friend is a married man, a minister in the church, and got involved with a female member of the church, somehow, I found out and advised him not to do such again. Several months later his wife got to know. He apologized to his wife for his actions. Instead of him...

I'm a lady who is not used to communicating consistently with guys. There's one of my male colleagues I often talk to nowadays. But I feel worried. It's been enjoyable discussing with him. My instinct is to pull back though he's done nothing wrong. I'm just worried...

We've been kingdom friends for a year, and recently he asked for my hand in marriage. I am 2 years older than him... Should I go ahead to marry him?... We seem to get along and have a lot in common.